• On Rage

    I don’t need graphic footage to understand… I am enraged, heartbroken, and shaken. I don’t need graphic footage to understand what happened. The reporting is already clear. As News, Not News wrote this week, what we are witnessing is not a single tragic mistake, but the predictable outcome of a system that has been expanding…

  • Healthcare, rights, and the question of belonging… If the first crack in our decision to leave came from safety concerns, the next came from the realization that we were asking our children to tolerate systems that didn’t see them, or worse, actively worked against them. There were the day-to-day things. After my second child, I…

  • It wasn’t just fear… It didn’t happen all at once. The decision to leave unfolded slowly, like a shadow creeping in just before dusk. Long before we packed up our lives, before our final goodbyes, there was a quiet shift beginning. A sense that the ground was changing beneath us. Thanks for reading Melissa’s Substack!…

  • Home is never just a place… It’s a strange thing to grieve a place while feeling relief to be gone. I lived in Texas for most of my life, long enough to feel tethered to its heat, its rhythm, its stubborn pride. I was born along the Texas coast. I’ve traveled before, even lived abroad…